Today is the day!

We go in less than 2 hours to find out if we're having a little girl or a little boy.

The anticipation has been so crazy. I am so excited.

I truly have no intuition as to what it could be. But for some reason I think they're gonna tell us it's a girl. Caleb of course thinks it's a boy. But we are both just ready to know... to start planning.

After today I will be able to pray for our baby by name. I will be able to say something besides Cletus is really moving today. haha

Today i'm going to be the future mother of a baby girl, or a baby boy. It changes things. It makes it real. I am so nervous.

And from today until Saturday at 2 I am going to have to cut myself off from my family and close friends who are going to drive me crazy trying to figure out how to get me to tell. What a wonderful day today is. I am blessed. We prayed together today. Prayed for our little miracle to be healthy and strong. I can't wait.

18 Weeks Tomorrow

Just 2 more weeks to go until we find out it we're having a Camilie Jane or a Caden Boyd! =) I'm still working with the spelling of Camilie, Camalie, Camily, Camely..... lol

But I had a terrible dream last night that I went to the doc and they couldnt tell what I was having. So I got up today and scheduled another ultrasound for the day after at this imaging place in Nashville. She was really nice... I explained my situation about the gender reveal party and how important it was that I find out and she let me schedule a "just-in-case" appointment. And told me if I cancel that it would be just fine! Whew....so hopefully my wee one decides to act right and spread those legs! I already plan on drinking lots of water in the days before so there is plenty of fluid to swim in and eat some reeses before my appointment for some added sugar to make Cletus wiggly! hehe

I'm getting big. I have noticed a change in the last few days. It's already starting to feel uncomfortable. The owner of my job was in yesterday and said to me "wow....Cace, you're big already!" yep, thanks! But he also assured me that later on if I only needed to do sit down admin work, or training stuff that he would make sure to make hours for me! That made me feel good. They just love me... as they should!

I got some Halloween decorations up around the house thanks to Caleb's mom! She gave me some stuff to make it look good! It's cute. I would take some pictures but my house is a mess and Im not cleaning it today. =) 

What else is new? Work, eat, sleep, eat, repeat. So I guess, nothing! 14 days from today we find out... and on the 22nd we have a gender reveal party.... then I'll give ya a good blog! Till then......

16 Weeks Tomorrow

We went to the doctor today. Very quick visit. We got to hear the heartbeat again... that was nice. Seems like it's slower this time than the last but the doc said it sounded perfect. The only questions I had were about my nosebleeds (I've had 2 the past two days) and he said it was very normal. So were my headaches. And so are the sharp pains I have pretty frequently. Everything seems to be just normal.

Biggest accomplishment for me is my weight gain. I weigh 120 lbs!!! The most I've ever weighed, ever. I have gained a total of 10 pounds in 2 months. Holy moly! They said it was perfect for me.... but I realize if I keep up that momentum, I'll be about 150 lbs by March... GEEZ! haha

We got to make our ultrasound appt too! We will find out what we're having on Thursday October 20th! At 9:30 AM. I still havent finalized plans on how I will tell everyone yet. I'm sure I will come up with some clever way to do it.... or maybe I'll just call everyone... guess you'll all just have to wait! They will tell me then what my definate due date is as well. We're really hoping baby Frazier decides to come either February 29th (leap year) or March 10th, or March 13th (since both of our b-days are on the 13th of a month).... But Im sure by that point, I wont care when he or she comes.... as long as it's soon!

So now it's the waiting game again.... a whole month before we can start planning and buying stuff! gahhhhhh

Here are some pics. I don't like the frontal view ones... I just look so wide and spread out... and look at my Ginormus boobs!!!!!! Good grief! I swear I'm wearing a bra.... haha

15 Weeks

Sorry for the delay in updating... but honestly its been pretty boring around here. Ever since the second tri-mester started, nothing very exciting has been happening.

Caleb and I are both working as much as we can and picking up extra shifts where possible so we see each other very little. I feel really good lately, other than a really bad headache about once a week, and constant sinus crud. My body gets really tired after being on my feet for 8 hours. I try to do as little as possible on my days off.

My belly is growing...duh! I have love handles for the first time in my life...hahaha. My boobs only fit in a sports bra. I can tell in my face that I'm growing. Sublte little changes that only I can notice, I think. The only yucky part so far is that my body is completely broken out from the boobs and up. (Gross, I know)... (thanks Mom!) I have always had acne issues, but this is definately the worse it's ever been. It's disgusting and I hate it, a lot. On top of already not feeling very attractive due to a bump in my belly... my skin sucks.

I'm very ready to start feeling my baby move so I can start to make some kind of connection with it. All I can think about right now is financial issues, how I can possibly make more money, find more time to sleep, get Caleb a new car, pay back the money we owe, work, food, sleep, get baby stuff... etc...

On a positive note, we have a doctors appt this Thursday. Hopefully they pay more attention to me than Caleb this time. I think we get to hear the heartbeat again. But the most exciting part is that we get to schedule our ultasound! If I have it my way it will be on October 13th. Then we can start finding stuff we like...and I can start planning. That will make me feel better I think.

The WIC program is an amazing program! I had to attend a class today on breast feeding. Before today I had decided to try and breast feed, but only for the first couple of weeks. After today's class I truly hope I can breast feed for at least the first 6 weeks and hopefully longer. (Just to let you know, my previous "enhancements" have nothing to do with the effects of breast feeding...trust me, I've asked my doc!) Other than the obvious positives of feeding my baby, did you know that breast fed children's chance of obesity later in life is only .01%... that's insane! Also, if I choose to do it 100 percent, WIC will provide me with a state of the art breast pump for the first year, plus access to a lactation consultant over the phone and for in-home visits if needed! Its a new program started a few months ago... I just think its awesome. The lady giving the class today gave lots of helpful hints about how to hide yourself in public and what to wear.

I have also decided to have as much skin-to-skin contact after birth as possible. So here's a friendly warning... As long as I don't have a c-section and everything goes normally with a healthy baby... you may want to wait for several hours after I have the baby to visit. I plan to spend lots of time right away just me, daddy, and baby! (And both grand-moms because I'm sure I'll need you both! =) ) Did you know? that if you put your baby on your tummy right after it comes out, within an hour or so the baby will crawl to your breasts all by itself and start nursing??!! Like little puppies!!! haha I thought that was pretty cool. Also, yes... I do plan on having an epidural. I know I'm tough, but I'm not stupid enough to think I can withstand the pain of childbirth all alone. I have dreams all the time that for whatever reason I don't get to have one... and I wake up scared to death.

So, because I do not have a functioning camera I wont be posting any pictures this time. I will try and update on Thursday after my appointment and I will try and take one with my phone and put it on here.

And for now, me and Cletus-the-fetus are going to take a nap! =)

Maternal Instinct... Or Just Growing up in general

Things I never thought would happen:
-I would ever enjoy waking up before noon.
-I would ever actually think about someone else's feelings before I opened my mouth to speak...especially when I'm in charge
-watching the news (in the morning and at night)
-drinking coffee everyday, instead of beer
-reading the mail, every single piece
-making my Christmas list in August and going through an amazing catalog and writing down what I want to get each person on my list
-thinking about buying a house, and in which school zone I want
-I never thought I'd enjoy growing up...

But as I sit here, off work early, in my pajamas at 6:25 pm, watching the 6 o clock news, making my Christmas list.... It just hit me.... I'm a grown up. Not just a grown up, playing house with a boy...but still no real responsibilities.... I am a freeking grown up. I have a child on the way. Who has a 6 month plan? I do... I have to...because in 6 months, my life will change forever. It's a scary thought... just for a moment. And then after a deep breath... I am embracing it. I am so excited. I am scared to flippin death. I am afraid it will all come about so quickly...and I need time to prepare. I need time to make more money, I need to buy funiture, a new car... to train my dog not to bark and my cat not to try and trip me... oh and the thoughts go on and on...

But I just realized that I have become a worrier. About driving, other cars around me, someone at work who cut themselves, when I don't hear from my mother when I'm supposed to... I have found myself more compassionate for someone who is crying, or if I hurt feelings... It's weird!

I wake up everyday at 7:45, no matter what time I go to bed. And enjoy the time before I have to get ready. Never have I ever been a morning person... now I can't stay up past 10. My body is changing...things are getting bigger and wider. My body hasnt changed since I was about 15 (other than what I did to it)... so that's weird.

I love someone...I think possibly for the first time in my life. I think you think you love a lot...until you find out that you really do. I know I love Caleb because I can be mad as hell... I can be hurt and upset and pissed off at him... and instead of plotting revenge or thinking about life without him... All I can think about is how much I love him, even when Im mad. It's easy to forgive him. He's easy to love. And he loves me. And I hope that forever and ever we feel this way.

Anyway... enough of that.
I need some Christmas decor. I know, it's only August... but all I have is a borrowed Christmas tree and whatever ornaments came with it. I would be willing to take whatever Christmas decorations you are done with... to make my house nice and homey and seasonal. Yep, I wanna be one of those. Shoot...if you have any Halloween, Thanksgiving, or Christmas decorations... I'll take em.

....going back to my Christmas list =)

11 weeks 5 days

We went to the doctor yesterday. It was fun. The nurses at my doctors office met us last time we went. And they remembered Caleb, probably more than they remembered me. My doctor is Dr. Boerner. He's an older man, been delivering babies for at least 18 years or so. And his nurses are older than my mother...and they LOVE them some Caleb. They flirt with him from the time we come in the door until we leave. They took him out of the room I was in to show him pictures of one of their sons.... Its mostly really cute, but yesterday I was annoyed because I didn't feel very good and I felt like we were at an appointment for Caleb, not for me and our baby. Looking back at it, it was really funny. And at least they remember us for something. But I told Caleb if it happened again, I was leaving his butt at home the next time! ha

But my visit went well. I weigh 115.8 (which is more than I've ever weighed in my life). Caleb got yelled at by the nurse for looking at the scale when I stood on it. The nurse said that was a "no-no". But I think because I've never had a weight issue... gaining weight is no big deal for me. So, for now at least, I don't mind sharing with him or with you how much I'm gaining... because, let's be honest.... how many of you think I'm fat for weighing 115 pounds??? LOL Anyway, my blood pressure was perfect. They took 3 tubes of blood for my HIV test and whatever else they test for. Is it weird to feel a slight bit worried about my hiv test? I know I don't have it... but it's still scary, right? Then the nurse sat us down to ask us the billion questions about us and our family health history. We were pretty easy, with most answers being "no". Then the doctor came in..... for our first meeting.......

My doctor is not what I expected. I knew he was older. But I expected an older man, gray hair, fat, like Santa Claus.... and someone as talkative as his nurses were. Dr. Boerner came in my room and the first thing I noticed were his loafers with no socks as he tippy-toed danced from the door to his stool. Almost like he was trying not to fall, maybe... or maybe he's just light on his feet and was having a good day. But he danced, on his toes, to his seat. It was weird. He then looked up at me and said "Questions?"........... He is tall and very lanky, like my dad. Doesn't look like he's over 45... I was trying to figure out what my first impression was...and I couldn't. It wasn't that I didn't like him right off the bat, it was just that he seemed weird, quirky... and hard to figure out.

I told him I didn't really have any questions, or maybe it was just I had too many to ask! This is our first time meeting each other, YOU tell me buddy! lol

He then introduced himself and went on a little talking spree, probably the same thing he tells every new patient. I will see him once a month until the 8th month, and then I'll go every 2 weeks until the 9th month and then I'll go every week. He said I would have my ultrasound between 18 and 20 weeks (in October) on a Thursday because that's when their ultrasound tech comes in. He said that's when he would set my definite due date, when he sees the ultrasound. And then when I am within 10 days of my due date, and as long as I am already dilated, he will schedule an induction on any day that I like. "You will go to the hospital at 5:30, I will come in at 6 and break your water... it usually takes 8 to 10 hours, you get your epidural whenever you want it...we have a baby by 5 or 6..." lol... Well, okay! I'm glad that's an option. So I can have my baby on March 10th! LOL That is, as long as I'm dilated. He also asked if I wanted the genetic test to see if my baby has any retardation... I said no. At this point there is no way I could abort something I love so much. God will only give us what He wants us to have. And if it happens to be a baby with special needs... I will make myself as educated as possible to make sure I can give the attention I need to. And I will love him or her just as much as I already do!

Then the doc said "well, today I'll just do an exam and at your next appt I will check the heartbeat">>>>>>>>>> WHAT? I almost had a heart attack. I am hearing this baby's heartbeat TODAY! I politely asked why I couldn't hear it today and he said I was only 10 weeks and 4 days and it would be possible that he couldn't find it yet and then I would be worried. And I politely argued that I was 11 weeks and 4 days and he should use his little circle thing and figure out that I am right and he is wrong... =) And guess who won???? He looked up from his circle thing and said "well, we'll try and hear it today".... winning!

Then they did the exam, told me to put on my clothes and then come down to his office when I was ready. We went to his office and sat down and he said "Questions?"...... um, nope... not really. I get to hear the heartbeat again next time and then the visit after that is my ultrasound. We left happy. The doc is quirky... but I decided that I like him. He's weird and different. He's direct and to the point and I like that. Besides, all he really does is catch the baby. I like the nurses a lot and hopefully the hospital nurses will be nice... that's all I care about. And I like that he lets me have Tylenol pm, benadryl, a glass of wine, or beer as stress needs it, and will let me induce if I decide I want to. And he let me win with the heartbeat argument. So, I like him!

After our appointment we went to Cool Springs Galleria to Build-a-Bear and built baby Frazier a bear, with the heartbeat in the paw.

We named him Buddy Bear. And if you push his little paw you can hear the heartbeat whenever you want. It's pretty amazing! It was fun building him too... neat little memory for us. After the mall we went fishing... and all I caught were turtles. Caleb caught everything... but it was fun.

I am feeling pretty good lately. I'm happy to be at the end of the first trimester. I haven't enjoyed it very much. But I feel less crazy, more sleepy, less uncomfortable.... And I'm happy for feeling better. I'm sure Caleb is happy too. That's the update.

Urban Dictionary

UrbanDictionary.com is a fun site where people come up with their own definitions for things and names.
I've looked up our potential baby names and just thought I'd share them with you here. Pretty funny stuff.

1.	caden
	a hot as hell, ripped out of his mind, hunky piece of man meat any girl would go crazy to have. enormous penis, immensely popular, and has girls hanging off his pinky   HAHAHAHAHAHAHA   3. Cammy 26 up, 60 down The very best kind of sister- best friend, partner in crime, & is always there. No matter what kind of shit just hit the fan.   Cute!     We have a doctors appt tomorrow (Monday)... so I'll give you a real update after that!

9 Week Update

Sorry it's been a bit since I've updated. I've been busy with work and keeping up around the house... not much time to just sit and think and write. And I just got off after working 50 hours and I don't have a day off for 5 more days... so I'm a little grumpy now... but I'll try and let you know what's new....

My boobs are bigger... lol... that's probably the most significant change. And my little pooch is growing too. As a matter of fact, I couldn't button my work pants today so I had to belly-band it and wear my shirt un-tucked to work. That was a first. My work family is pretty awesome and they all know me so well so I got a lot of grief for it, all in good fun though.

I've nick-named my fetus, Cletus. HAHAHAHAHHA So "his" name is "Cletus the Fetus" for now. Caleb hates it but I find it hilarious...and I blame all my bad behavior and my hunger strikes on Cletus. Who wouldn't laugh?? lol

I find myself being hungry almost constantly and I've been packing a snack bag everyday. And if I wait too long to eat it becomes painful. I also have to drink a lot more water or I really start to feel crummy. And I found out that I like the taste of ginger ale... so I drink that when I don't feel real good. I still haven't been "morning sick".... but my stomach hurts or gets uncomfortable for at least a couple hours everyday. It's hard for me to be on a routine with food, water, and sleep so that's probably why.

My cat is being weird. I've heard they do that. He's either incredibly clingy to me...or just plain mean. He has a very intense personality anyway...but lately it's become really interesting.

Caleb started his new job with T Mobile and quit Buffalo Wild Wings. He really likes the new job and it seems like it will be a great thing. I'm just jealous of him right now because he has more time off than I do... and I'm the one cooking the baby! lol But that should level out once my work settles down in a month or so.

Our financial situation sucks... but thanks to some really awesome people in our lives, we're gonna be ok... and hopefully be able to get ahead. Our support system is awesome... both families and all of our friends have our backs. And I'm really not sure what I would do without them!

I'm sure everyone close to me would tell you that I'm quite a bit "crabbier"..... I don't think it would be as bad if I felt better. Or if I rested more. Or if I could just make it to my second trimester, where everyone promises me everything will be better. I'm trying!

I'd post a pic but... my camera broke and the one on my phone takes blurry pics...and Caleb is out with his friend so you'll just have to wait! But I promise to get one on here tonight.

Friends have started giving me things...and I'm accepting ALL donations! Jess gave me an array of different bottles to try. And a friend at work gave me a trunk full of baby gear. A case of diapers, a johnny jumper, a little floor blanket toy thing, one of those little vibrating chair things, a sling, and a few other cool things. We've just been tossing it all in the "baby's room" for now. I'm not quite ready to start going through anything. And Kimmie bought "her" a little onsie that says "My aunt is AWESOME" and some huge infant hair bows. She's SURE it's gonna be a girl. And we've discussed it... we really don't care what it is honestly. There are pros and cons of both... and we're preparing ourselves more and more everyday.

That's it for the update. I'll post a pic asap!

7 or 8 Weeks?

I had a doctor's appt yesterday. And due to wonderful TennCare, I didn't even get to meet the doctor. Just the nurses. It was just a preliminary appt, to confirm my pregnancy and get my paperwork started. So I peed in the cup and learned a few things about what my doctor allows. His name is Dr. Boerner. He's older...been practicing for at least 27 years. So he's old school. And for whatever reason they changed my due date to March 17th. Apparently the nurses at the Health Dept and the nurses at my doc office don't agree with how long 40 weeks from May 31st is.So I could be 7 weeks or 8 weeks??  Or however that works. I figure once I get my one ultrasound (only one is covered through TennCare) I will know for sure how far along I am and what the exact arrival date is expected to be. I'm still shooting for March 10th... or even Feb 29th (next year is a leap year and I think it would be cool!)
My main questions were

When can I dye my hair? My roots are about 5 inches long and they look terrible! Answer: Anytime! The chemicals I put into my hair don't go into my bloodstream, therefore don't go to the baby! Thank God! As soon as my budget allows, my hair will be fixed!

What about caffeine? I have cut it completely out, but I get small headaches everyday... Answer: have a coke or a coffee whenever I like. Just try and cut back little by little as time goes on. So I had a coffee yesterday and a tea today... and I'm happy for those!

The nurse also told me that my doc allows one glass of wine or beer per week as my stress level asks for. I honestly haven't even wanted any booze... but it's nice to know that if I absolutely want something, I can have it.

So the doc appt went ok I guess. I get to hear the heartbeat Aug 22. That is, if my TennCare gets approved. I find out sometime between now and 45 days from now... keep your fingers crossed! And we will find out the sex sometime early October.

How a I doing? Ok. I get a little "morning sickness" several times throughout the day. I don't really feel sick or like I need to vomit... I just feel slow. Like my body is trying to fight off a sickness. My sinuses suck. Apparently pregnancy makes your mucus membranes swollen so I feel stuffy but there's not much I can do about it. And I'm moody....sooo moody. Just ask Caleb about that part of it. When I dont have to work, I just lay on my spot on the couch and watch Lost or some other show on tv and try to do as little as possible. I'm not really tired, just lazy. Which is unlike me normally. Sometimes it's fun...most of the time its boring. He's being a really good sport about it though. I just really hope in the next few weeks I get my energy back and get some motivation to do something...anything.

I know it's belly pic time... but u might have to wait a day or 2. Caleb's at work and I look like a hot mess so I'll do it, maybe tomorrow. He got the job at T-Mobile we were praying for. Good pay and good benefits. He starts on Monday. He's working at B-Dubs at night. Tonight's his first night out of training... Thank God because we could use a little extra income right now. I also got a raise, or I get a bonus every month if my store does well. I'm back to the management thing here. I get paid hourly plus overtime plus my bonus doing it this way. And this week I'm scheduled 50 hours so, I'll be tired, but I'll be happy for the paycheck. Once Caleb's money gets rolling, I can step back a bit and let him take over. I'm patiently waiting =)

Still like Camalie and Caden. Thinking the color purple for the room if its a girl, and maybe green if it's a boy. We started glancing at baby stuff we might like when we go to the store. We still have plenty of time to figure all of that out. My belly is big to me and Caleb. No one else can really tell yet unless I point it out... but we can tell. And my boobs... they're gonna be out of control before too long... lol

I guess that about wraps it all up. My birthday is in a couple weeks... I took off work but don't really have any plans. I just want a camera...and I'd love to have my hair done by then. But I don't really want a big to-do... however, this is my last birthday as just Cacey. Next year I'll be Cacey the mommy looking for a sitter.. haha

7 Weeks!

Not much has changed. Still no morning sickness. Still feeling lazy but working pretty hard. Not a whole lot to update you on. I suppose I should be thankful for this time... I'm not going to get very much of it in the near future! ha

Typical Stress

Work was terrible for me last night. Tuesday nights behind the bar are typically not extremely busy but I do have my hands full making lots of $2 Long Island Teas. But last night felt like a full fledged Friday night. I went in expecting to make about $40 bucks and be out by 9 and go about my way but it was so busy. I made about triple what I expected but I could not keep up. I am usually so fast and accurate and still able to keep good conversation and have fun. But last night I was 5 steps behind, back hurting, starving like I hadn't just eaten 2 hours before. And just overall unhappy. I felt like I wasn't pulling my weight with Kimmie. And we are going through a new menu and computer change so that's an added time consumer. I NEVER feel like that... I am always the best at what I do and I tend to make everyone else try to go faster to keep up. It sucked. I know, I'm pregnant... but I don't feel pregnant...so I don't feel like I should be slowing down yet. My books assure me that the first trimester is the most draining... but I just don't like feeling like I'm the best.

And then because of the fact we were supposed to be moving and Caleb hyper-extending his knee at his moving job... we're not working with our full potential of income. I'm so proud of him because he has already been hired at Buffalo Wild Wings in Smyrna and should be starting this week...along with he has his second interview with T-Mobile, which would be awesome with the pay and benefits. But for right now... we're living off of what I make...and it's tough. And stressful.

I got a call from my big boss today asking me to go back on the management schedule full time, because they do really need me...and as much as I need the cash right now, I think it was a blessing in disguise. Yes, it's longer hours on my feet but I can rest when I need to, eat when I need to, not bend over to wash dishes, not carry kegs or bus tubs, and go at my own pace. It will take about 3 weeks to get the steady pay check coming and get back on budget... and in 3 weeks Caleb will have steady money coming in too... but the next 3 weeks are gonna suck! So that stresses me. 

I already feel better after writing all of this down. I prayed today... I know everything will be fine, it always is. And He will always provide what I need. I just have to be more accepting... I'm working on that.

I need to be happy and relaxed. I need an easy-going baby...lol  Its just when I get a wave of emotion, whether is happy or sad or crazy, it overcomes me now. 

How about some positives? We have netflix and Caleb and I are completely addicted to Lost! It makes me very happy! Also, we are coming to Clarksville this weekend to see my family... As long as it's not 4000 degrees outside we're gonna hang at Amy's pool on Sunday. I get to see Grayson. That kinda stuff makes me happy! 

6 Weeks Today

I had Caleb take about 20 photos before I finally liked one or 2. These are not very easy, or flattering to take... but there you go...

Still don't really feel pregnant. That little belly you see is more of a belly than I've ever had so I can tell a difference. My boobs are a little sore. And I feel lazier...not so much more tired, just more lazy if that makes any sense.. ha And right when I wake up in the mornings I feel the teeniest bit queezy but it goes away really quickly.

I have a WIC appt on Thursday and I'm waiting for a letter in the mail telling me when my true TennCare appt will be. I am worried I won't be accepted for either because of the money I made on that opening I just just a month ago, which in an unrealistic income for me normally... but hopefully I can convey all of that... If I don't get accepted... I will be having a home birth because there is NO way we can afford the 15 grand in hospital bills it will take... lol

I made my first Doctor appt. It's Monday July 25th at 9. I don't really know anything about the doctor...had to choose him from a list of names. I'll be 8 weeks when I go so hopefully they'll let me see the little p-nut! =)

So far we're hoping for a boy. I just think it will be easier for Caleb to have a boy first. He really doesn't have any experience with small children and having a boy to relate to will be better...I think. But we keep talking about a little girl too... so either way it goes we will be delighted... but we're pushing for a boy =)

Names so far: (sticking with the "C" theme)

boy: Caden Boyd Frazier

girl: Camalie Jane Frazier

(Camalie is a combo of Cacey, Amy, and Emily...and I have to give Emily 100 percent credit for that one...and Jane is my mother's middle name and Boyd is Caleb's grandfather's name and his middle name as well)

So that's the update.

Week One

One week ago I was recovering from my going away party. I had accepted a promotion for management for Old Chicago and Caleb and I were moving to Lexington, KY by the end of the month. I had to leave for training on Tuesday afternoon. We were excited to start an adventure and see where it took us. Had all the plans and wheels in motion.
I was about 2 days late for my period, no biggie, considering all the stress and change that was taking place. But we picked up a home test at the dollar store the night before, just as a precaution.

So, Tuesday July 5th... I wake up to pack my bags. I go to the bathroom and the little test on the counter reminds me of my plans to take it... so I do. *sidebar---I have taken approximately 20 pregnancy tests in my adult life...I freak myself out almost once a month...I am the result of that .01% that the pill might not work...so this is almost routine to take these at home tests* So I pee on the stick (pardon my boldness) and before I can even pull my pants up there are very plainly 2 solid lines! So I dig in the trash and pull the box out... and sure enough, 2 lines means I'm pregnant. Deep breaths.

I go to Caleb, who is still very soundly sleeping and try and wake him... which is not ever very easy. So I start to become impatient until he finally asks me what the big deal is...and why he needs to get up now? I just looked at him and said "BECAUSE I'M PREGNANT!".................................. He said.... "Oh...." lol
So we come to the living room and sit on opposite sides of the couch and just kind of look off into the blank tv for a while. And he keeps saying "I love you, I just don't know what to say... " over and over. We are both equally as surprised, shocked, scared, excited, nervous, nauseous, and every other word you can think to describe "that" feeling.

Our very first order of business was that I had to decide immediately whether I was leaving for training as scheduled or if we needed to change that decision... but we had to make it quickly. After a trip to Kimmie's where I cried on her couch and a phone call to my sister Amy, who has had a very demanding career while having children, and a phone call to Jessica...where she could hear sadness in my voice, to Brittney who didnt even get a chance to say congratulations because I had to cut her off, one to Emily who was on vacation in the mountains and had no service....and I had to wait ALL DAY to call my mother after she got off work.... so after ALL of that... we decided that picking up and moving away from our support systems, taking on a very demanding new job, and being pregnant was just not an option for us. So I called my boss... who told me "shit happens"... and then..... Finally... once we made that huge decision, and we didn't have to factor in moving... Caleb and I looked at each other and we smiled..and laughed...and cried... and said... "we're going to be parents".....

The more hours that went by the more excited we became. We made the phone calls to our parents (which we both honestly halfway dreaded for fear of judgement) and all of those conversations were wonderful. Caleb's mom asked him why he was upset...and told him that he better get excited cuz she was and this was a blessing. My mom was driving down the road and had to pull over due to her excitement! My Dad was convinced he is too young to be a grandpa and had to literally sit down and take a reaming from my mother before he realized reality... All of our close friends were excited and supportive..but all wanted to make sure we were excited first... and it took us a day or 5.... lol... but we are!

The next day I went to the doctor, to make it "official"... I will be six weeks tomorrow. My due date is March 10th... and I hope it sticks because it will be a wonderful blessing to have my child and my mother have the same birthday! All we talk about with each other, and with everyone else is the baby... our heads are spinning with all of the things we have to accomplish in 9 months. Jobs, childcare, cleanliness, clothes, money, doctors, insurance, rest, reading.... you name it... we're thinking about it.

The only thing I know FOR SURE right now is... Caleb loves me with everything he has and I love him just as much. He's going to be a wonderful father and I am very happy about that choice. Sure we would have loved to have been married and financially set before we brought a new life into the picture... but while we were busy making plans... God showed us his own plan. And I honestly couldn't imagine this week being any different than it has been! =)